When was the last time you asked a child, What’s important to you? or What strengths do you see in yourself? For many kids, the answer might be “never.” I’ll never forget the story of a parent who came to one of my talks after their child shared that, for the first time, someone asked about their strengths, and it changed everything. When we recognize a child’s efforts and responsibilities, even the ones they find annoying or difficult, we help them see their hidden strengths. For example: Taking care of a sibling every morning develops patience and caregiving skills. Facing challenges at home or school can shape resilience and problem-solving abilities. These small moments of acknowledgment can transform how kids see themselves, helping them feel valued, capable, and confident. Let’s make it a point to ask our kids, “What’s important to you? What are your strengths?” #EmpoweringKids #PositiveParenting #RaisingConfidentKids #HowToTalkToKids #DrRobynSilverman #ParentingTips #MindfulParenting #ParentingPodcast
from Dr. Robyn Silverman
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pG8Zoby9W5Y
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