Tired of whining, power struggles, and having to repeat yourself over and over? Cooperation doesn’t come from commands — it comes from connection. 💛 Here are 4 simple ways to help kids naturally step up and work as a team: 1️⃣ Invite them to be helpful. Carry groceries, hand you towels, stir the batter — small jobs build pride and connection. 2️⃣ Make meals a team effort. Let them set the table (yes, even if it’s messy!). It teaches that working together gets things done. 3️⃣ Ask for their advice. “Two boxes of markers, four kids… what should we do?” This builds ownership, problem-solving, and yes — cooperation. 4️⃣ Offer choices during cleanup. “Bags, books, or bears — which job do you want?” Choices lead to action. Commands lead to resistance. ✨ When kids feel included, they cooperate. It’s not about control — it’s about connection. Want more tools to get kids talking (and cooperating!)? Grab your box of Kidversation Cards at kidversationcards.com and start talking today. #DrRobynSilverman #HowToTalkToKids #ParentingTips #CooperationNotCombat #ConnectionOverControl #KidversationCards
from Dr. Robyn Silverman
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