When kids face disappointment, they don’t need their feelings minimized or fixed. They need to feel seen, heard, and supported. Try this instead: Acknowledge what mattered: “I know this was really important to you. You worked hard. How are you feeling about it?” Validate their emotions: “It makes sense that you’re disappointed. I’m here to listen.” Affirm their courage and effort: “You put yourself out there and that takes bravery. We’re always in your corner.” Disappointment is part of growing up. When we respond with empathy and belief in their ability to move forward, we help kids build resilience, confidence, and self-trust. #LeadToLaunch #DrRobynSilverman #ParentingScripts #RaisingResilientKids #ParentingTeens #HelpingKidsHandleDisappointment #HowToTalkToKids
from Dr. Robyn Silverman
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