👀 Ever caught your child sneaking a turn in a board game… or “borrowing” a sibling’s hoodie without asking? You’re not alone. The real question is: How do we help kids choose right over wrong—even when nobody’s watching? Here are 3 key questions I teach my own kids: 1️⃣ Gut: What is my gut telling me to do? 2️⃣ Eyes: Would I do this if Grandma, my teacher, or my coach were watching? 3️⃣ Switch the Lens: If someone did this to me, how would I feel? These simple checks help kids build integrity—so they can lead with honesty whether eyes are on them or not. 💡 📕 For more scripts and tools to tackle tough conversations, grab your copy of How to Talk to Kids About Anything today. #HowToTalkToKids #DrRobynSilverman #RaisingLeaders #ParentingTips #Integrity
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Monday, 29 September 2025
Friday, 26 September 2025
How to Talk to Kids about Overthinking #shorts
Kids can be "champion overthinkers". When big feelings feel too big, they may: ➡️ Build “walls” of over-planning ➡️ Anticipate every problem ➡️ Bark orders at others ➡️ Ruminate until they’re stuck But here’s the truth: overthinking doesn’t protect them—it overwhelms them. ✅ Instead, we can teach kids to: 1. Name and express their feelings (all of them—happy, sad, angry, disgusted). 2. Share those feelings with trusted adults. 3. Ask: *“What would help me feel calmer right now?”* 4. Break big problems into **manageable first steps.** This helps them handle the emotions of the present without spiraling into the future. 🌟 📕 Want more tools and scripts like these? Pick up your copy of "How to Talk to Kids About Anything" today! #HowToTalkToKids #DrRobynSilverman #BigFeelings #ParentingSupport #Overthinking
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from Dr. Robyn Silverman
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Thursday, 25 September 2025
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💬 More than half of teens today feel dissatisfied with their bodies. Let that sink in. Girls worry they’re not thin enough. Boys worry they’re not muscular enough. And too many kids are internalizing messages that chip away at their self-worth. That’s why we must talk to our kids about body image—with honesty, compassion, and the right tools. 💙 📕 In my book, How to Talk to Kids About Anything, I share practical scripts and strategies for navigating tough topics like this—so your kids know their value isn’t defined by a mirror or a number on the scale. ✨ Together, we can raise kids who feel confident, strong, and at home in their own skin. #HowToTalkToKids #DrRobynSilverman #BodyImage #RaisingConfidentKids
from Dr. Robyn Silverman
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/_6N1aT-ca1M
from Dr. Robyn Silverman
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Wednesday, 24 September 2025
4 Things Every Parent Deserves #shorts
Parents, this one’s for you. 🌟 We give so much to our kids, our families, our work, our communities… but sometimes we forget to give to ourselves. 💙 Here are 4 things every parent deserves: 1️⃣ A break – you don’t have to do it all right now. 2️⃣ Credit – for using your skills and doing hard things well. 3️⃣ Permission to say no – your plate is already full. 4️⃣ Permission to fail – you’re human, and mistakes are part of growth. ✨ You matter in equal measure to those you care for and love.✨ Let this be your reminder today: Give yourself these 4 things. You’ve earned them. 💕 #ParentingSupport #DrRobynSilverman #StrongParentsStrongKids #SelfCompassion
from Dr. Robyn Silverman
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from Dr. Robyn Silverman
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/0A-zplDRjAs
Tuesday, 23 September 2025
How to Talk to Bigger Kids about Bigger Feelings #shorts
💡 Big kids = big feelings. And if they don’t know what frustration, disappointment, or embarrassment feels like in their bodies, they can’t regulate in the moment. In this week’s How to Talk to Kids About Anything episode, I welcome back Alyssa Blask Campbell—yes, she’s been on the show before!—to dive into her new book, Big Kids, Bigger Feelings. Together, we explore how parents and educators can help children notice their physical cues, pause, and choose words and actions with intention. 🎧 Listen to the full episode + grab the show notes here: 👉 https://drrobynsilverman.com/how-to-talk-to-bigger-kids-about-bigger-feelings-with-alyssa-blask-campbell/ 💬 What physical signs tell YOU frustration is rising? Share below—we’re all learning to pause before reacting. #HowToTalkToKids #DrRobynSilverman #BigKidsBiggerFeelings #ParentingTools #EmotionalIntelligence
from Dr. Robyn Silverman
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from Dr. Robyn Silverman
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Monday, 22 September 2025
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Hey parents! Don’t do these 5️⃣ things if you want your kid to grow up and be kind and empathetic: 1️⃣ Overprotect - Let kids learn from their own mistakes. Challenges = learning! 2️⃣ Rescue Immediately - Guide them in problem-solving instead of solving it all. 3️⃣ Ignore Emotions - Validate feelings so kids express emotions constructively. 4️⃣ Overpraise - Balanced feedback builds healthy self-esteem. 5️⃣ Shield from Challenges - Encourage appropriate risks + responsibilities for independence. Follow me @dr.robynsilverman for more insight on how to talk to kids about anything! #parenting #positiveparenting #parentingtips #emotionalintelligence #DrRobynSilverman
from Dr. Robyn Silverman
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from Dr. Robyn Silverman
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Friday, 19 September 2025
My Parenting Moment
✨ Parenting isn’t about being perfect—it’s about staying connected. One of my proudest moments as a mom was when my teen told me, “I tell my mom everything.” Even the awkward stuff. Even the tough stuff. When kids know they can come to us—without judgment—we win more than just a conversation, we win their trust. Let’s keep talking, listening, and showing up. That’s where the magic happens. Follow @dr.robynsilverman for more real-life parenting wins and strategies you can use today. #ParentingWin #ParentingTips #ParentingTeens #ParentingGoals #ParentingAdvice #PositiveParenting #ParentingJourney #RaisingTeens #CommunicationSkills #FamilyConnection #TalkingWithKids #ParentingSupport #ParentingMoments #LeadershipAtHome #ConnectedParenting
from Dr. Robyn Silverman
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from Dr. Robyn Silverman
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