Why do they work? They create safety, show respect, and remind kids they can share without fear of judgment. Here they are again with a short insight into why each one works: 1. Start with an Invitation, Not an Interrogation “Hey, I’ve been wondering what’s been on your mind lately. Want to talk?” Why it works: An open invitation gives your child the choice to engage, without pressure or putting them on the spot. 2. Be Curious, Not Critical “Tell me more about that. What was the best part? What was the hardest?” Why it works: Open-ended questions help kids reflect and share details. It feels like an exploration, not an interrogation. 3. Use a Gentle Bridge “When I was your age, I remember feeling… Does any of that feel familiar to you?” Why it works: Sharing a piece of your own story reminds your child they are not alone and helps them feel understood. 4. Ask Permission “Would it be okay if I asked you something? You don’t have to answer right now.” Why it works: Asking permission shows respect for your child’s boundaries. It gives them a sense of control over what they share. 5. Offer an Out “If you ever don’t want to talk about it right now, that’s okay. I’m here when you’re ready.” Why it works: Letting your child know they can pause or come back to a topic later removes pressure and builds trust. 6. End with Reassurance “I hope you know you can tell me anything, even the hard stuff, and I’ll still love you just the same.” Why it works: Kids need to know your love isn’t conditional on what they share. This feeling of safety makes them more likely to open up. 7. A Gentle Prompt for Next Time “What’s something you wish grown-ups asked about, but they don’t?” Why it works: This flips the script and invites your child to lead with what matters most to them. Conversations like these plant seeds. Even if they don’t open up right away, you are showing them you are ready whenever they are. Save these ideas, share them with a friend who might need them, and tell me: Which one do you want to try this week? #HowToTalkToKids #ParentingScripts #ParentingConnection #DrRobynSilverman #ParentingTips #DeeperConversations #EmotionalSafety
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