“Good job” feels safe. It’s quick, familiar... but often forgettable. Our kids don’t just need to feel noticed, they need to feel understood. Try this: Notice the process, not just the outcome. Say, “You really focused through that challenge,” or “You didn’t give up when it got tough.” That kind of praise? It sticks. It teaches. When we name their effort, strengths, or strategy, we’re not just boosting their confidence, we’re giving them a roadmap to repeat that success. Let’s build confident kids who know why they’re capable, because we’ve told them, and shown them, in ways that matter. #DrRobynSilverman #ParentingTips #BuildingConfidence #PraiseThatTeaches #ParentingScripts #PositiveParenting #GrowthMindset #RaisingStrongKids #PowerfulParenting #EmotionalIntelligence
from Dr. Robyn Silverman
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