When Your Teen Asks Are You Disappointed in Me? #shorts

When your teen asks, “Are you disappointed in me?”, it can stop you in your tracks. This is a moment that matters. Try saying: “Nothing you do will ever stop me from loving you. I might not love every choice, but I always love you. I’m so glad you came to me, tell me what’s on your mind.” Why does this work? It reassures them that your love isn’t conditional. It reminds them they’re safe with you, even when they mess up or feel ashamed. Short. Simple. And it keeps the door open so they can talk it through with you instead of shutting down. Your kids need to know they are more than their mistakes. Save this for when you need it, and share below: Have you ever had a moment like this with your teen? What did you say? #ParentingTeens #HowToTalkToKids #ParentingScripts #ParentingTips #UnconditionalLove #PositiveParenting #ConnectedParenting #ParentingSupport #TeenParenting #DrRobynSilverman

from Dr. Robyn Silverman
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Power With Moments with our Kids #shorts

"Power over is only going to take you and your relationship so far… Power with is what really creates deep, lasting connections with our kids.” I love how Dr. Lynyetta Willis puts this. In our recent conversation on the podcast, we talked about how everyday routines, even something as simple as winding down together with an audiobook at night, can be an incredible opportunity to co-create solutions with our kids instead of just trying to control them. When we shift from power over to power with, we don’t lose our authority, we gain trust, teamwork, and real influence. It’s these small moments of connection and collaboration that strengthen our bond and help our kids feel safe, seen, and capable. Could your family use more “power with” moments? Start with one tiny routine and watch what changes. Listen to this full conversation with Dr. Lynyetta Willis, it’s packed with insights that can transform your parenting. The episode is out now on How to Talk to Kids About Anything. #PowerWith #ConnectedParenting #ParentingPodcast #ParentingTips #HowToTalkToKids #DrRobynSilverman #FamilyConnection #ParentingAdvice #CoRegulation #BreakingCycles #EmpoweredParenting #RaisingKidsWithLove

from Dr. Robyn Silverman
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How to Heal Our Family Out of a State of Stable Misery #shorts

Let’s talk about spanking. So many people say, “Well, I was spanked and I turned out fine.” I hear this all the time. Here’s what research actually shows: yes, fear-based discipline like spanking can stop a behavior in the moment, but it comes at a cost. When a child is hit, their brain goes into survival mode. That fight-flight-freeze response is the “red zone.” And when kids are in the red zone, they can’t truly learn. Their brains are wired to survive, not to absorb lessons. So what do they actually learn? To fear you, to shut down, or to hide things next time. You can’t teach skills, respect, or better choices in that state. Connection, not fear, is where real learning sticks. Parenting isn’t about “winning” a moment. It’s about building trust that lasts for years to come. It’s okay if you grew up with spanking, many of us did. But we know better now, so we can do better for our kids. Save this, share it, and let’s break old patterns together. Listen and learn more in my conversation with Dr. Willis and follow to grab more scripts and tips that help you parent with connection and courage. #ParentingTips #PositiveParenting #ParentingWithoutFear #ConnectedParenting #StopSpanking #CycleBreaking #GentleParenting #ParentingSupport #ChildDevelopment #DrRobynSilverman #ParentingAdvice #RespectfulParenting #HowToTalkToKids

from Dr. Robyn Silverman
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When Your Child Says Nobody Likes Me #shorts

When your child says things like “I can’t do anything right” or “Nobody likes me,” it’s so natural to want to jump in and fix it right away. But what they really need in that moment is you, your calm presence, your curiosity, and your empathy. Instead of rushing to reassure or solve, pause and: 1️⃣ Clarify: “What makes you say that?” or “Did something happen today that made you feel like that?” Their words are clues. Let them lead you deeper. 2️⃣ Empathize: “That sounds really hard.” Or, “I’ve felt that way too.” You don’t have to agree with the belief, just sit with the feeling. 3️⃣ Listen: Hold the space without explaining it away or fixing it immediately. When we listen well, kids often find their own strength and perspective again. You don’t have to panic, fix, or have all the answers, you just have to make way for the story behind the sentence. That’s where trust and connection grow. 💛 #ParentingTips #EmpathyInParenting #ParentChildConnection #HowToTalkToKids #DrRobynSilverman #ActiveListening #RaisingResilientKids

from Dr. Robyn Silverman
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When Your Child Says Nobody Likes Me #shorts

When your child says things like “I can’t do anything right” or “Nobody likes me,” it’s so natural to want to jump in and fix it right away. But what they really need in that moment is you, your calm presence, your curiosity, and your empathy. Instead of rushing to reassure or solve, pause and: 1️⃣ Clarify: “What makes you say that?” or “Did something happen today that made you feel like that?” Their words are clues. Let them lead you deeper. 2️⃣ Empathize: “That sounds really hard.” Or, “I’ve felt that way too.” You don’t have to agree with the belief, just sit with the feeling. 3️⃣ Listen: Hold the space without explaining it away or fixing it immediately. When we listen well, kids often find their own strength and perspective again. You don’t have to panic, fix, or have all the answers, you just have to make way for the story behind the sentence. That’s where trust and connection grow. 💛 #ParentingTips #EmpathyInParenting #ParentChildConnection #HowToTalkToKids #DrRobynSilverman #ActiveListening #RaisingResilientKids

from Dr. Robyn Silverman
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Teaching Kids Empathy

One of the greatest gifts we can nurture in our children is empathy. Yes, research shows empathy is inborn, but it also needs to be modeled, taught, and practiced again and again. When kids learn to read emotions and take the perspective of others, they understand that their actions impact someone else’s feelings. They see that despite our differences, every person deserves to be treated with dignity and humanity. Want to help your child grow this skill? Try this: - Talk about emotions openly, yours and theirs. - Practice using I feel statements. - Notice how actions affect feelings, in real life, in books, or shows. - Encourage listening and showing concern when someone is upset or struggling. Empathy connects us, strengthens our relationships, and makes our world better. Let’s raise kids who see beyond themselves and choose kindness, even when it’s hard. #EmpathyMatters #RaisingKindKids #ParentingWithPurpose #PerspectiveTaking #ParentingTips #HowToTalkToKids #DrRobynSilverman

from Dr. Robyn Silverman
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How to Talk to Kids about the Flood in Texas #shorts

When tragedy strikes, like the devastating floods in Texas, many parents ask me: Should I talk to my kids about this? The answer, for many families, is yes. When we don’t talk about hard things, kids fill in the blanks, often with fear that’s bigger than the truth. Here’s how to have these tough conversations: ✅ Start with: A terrible thing happened in Texas. What have you heard? ✅ Gently fill in the facts in an age-appropriate way. ✅ Show them where it happened on a map, and where you are, to answer the unspoken Am I safe? ✅ Name their feelings. It’s okay to feel scared, sad, or confused. I feel that way too. ✅ Talk about the helpers, the neighbors, camp staff, first responders who saved lives. ✅ Let kids help. Pick a vetted nonprofit together. ✅ And remember: If you or your child are struggling, don’t go it alone. Ask for support. To the families in Texas whose lives have been forever changed by this flood, my heart is with you. May you find help, hope, and moments of light in the days ahead. Let’s lead our children with empathy, truth, trust, and love, even in life’s hardest moments. 💛 Sending strength to everyone affected. #ParentingThroughHardTimes #HowToTalkToKids #EmpathyMatters #ParentingSupport #TexasFloods #WeStandWithTexas #DrRobynSilverman

from Dr. Robyn Silverman
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