Life moves fast. Deadlines pile up, emails flood in, and the to-do list never seems to end. But in the middle of all the busyness, our kids are here, watching, waiting, hoping we’ll take a moment to see them, hear them, and just be with them. One day, they’ll be grown. They won’t need our help tying their shoes, checking their homework, or tucking them in at night. But today? Today, they do. Take the time. Pause. Turn to them. Be present. It doesn’t have to be perfect,just intentional. Because the moments we spend with them now will be the ones they carry with them forever. What’s one small way you make time to connect with your child each day? π #Parenting #BePresent #TimeMatters #ParentingAdvice #RaisingKids #MindfulParenting #DrRobynSilverman #HowToTalkToKids
from Dr. Robyn Silverman
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sF3oYqFW5vY
Sunday, 11 May 2025
Friday, 9 May 2025
My Teen is in a bad mood #shorts
Why does my nervous system react the same way to my teen’s bad mood as it would to a saber-tooth tiger chasing me?! If you’ve ever felt this, you’re not alone! Our amygdala doesn’t always distinguish between actual danger and the emotional rollercoaster of parenting a teen. And let’s be real, when they’re storming through the house like a hurricane, our stress levels definitely take a hit! I love this trend because I literally talk about this in Chapter 1 of ππ°πΈ π΅π° ππ’ππ¬ π΅π° ππͺπ₯π΄ ππ£π°πΆπ΅ ππ―πΊπ΅π©πͺπ―π¨! Our kids’ emotions impact us in powerful ways, and learning how to regulate ourselves is just as important as guiding them through their big feelings. Do you think there’s truth to the saying, “you’re only as happy as your unhappiest child”? Let’s talk about it! Drop a comment if you feel your teen’s mood swings too! #HowToTalkToKids #TeenParenting #ParentingTeens #EmotionalRollercoaster #ParentingWisdom #DrRobynSilverman #MindfulParenting #ParentingTruths
from Dr. Robyn Silverman
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7qCp-qS46gM
from Dr. Robyn Silverman
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7qCp-qS46gM
Things that Kids Remember that Audults Forget #shorts
Kids may not always remember what we said, but they’ll remember how we made them feel. They hold onto the people who laughed with them, stood by them, made space for their emotions, protected them, and believed them, even when the truth was hard to tell. It’s a powerful reminder: The small, quiet moments of presence, trust, and empathy often become the loudest memories in their hearts. They don’t need perfection. They need a connection. #ParentingWithPurpose #ChildDevelopment #DrRobynSilverman #EmotionalSafety #ConnectionOverPerfection #ParentingWisdom #KidsRemember #GentleParenting #ParentingSupport #RaisingGoodHumans #HowToTalkToKidsAboutAnything
from Dr. Robyn Silverman
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cRZfl9mFaqA
from Dr. Robyn Silverman
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cRZfl9mFaqA
Thursday, 8 May 2025
The Biggest Barrier to Our Childs Success Might Be Us #shorts
It’s tough to admit, but sometimes, as parents, we unintentionally hold our kids back from learning and growing. When we rescue them too often, turn a blind eye to struggles, or push them forward before they’re ready, we might be preventing critical brain development and real learning from happening. Helping isn’t about doing it for them, it’s about creating systems that allow them to try, fail, and learn in a supportive environment. Failure isn’t the enemy; it’s a stepping stone to growth. Let’s remind ourselves: It’s okay to let them struggle. It’s okay to give them time to figure it out. It’s okay to let the learning happen at their own pace. By stepping back, we give our kids the chance to step up. #ParentingTips #HowToTalkToKids #GrowthMindset #RaisingResilientKids #DrRobynSilverman #PositiveParenting #BuildingConfidence #EmpoweredKids
from Dr. Robyn Silverman
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BWV-w_J4yB8
from Dr. Robyn Silverman
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BWV-w_J4yB8
The Power of Asking Kids About Their Strengths #shorts
When was the last time you asked a child, What’s important to you? or What strengths do you see in yourself? For many kids, the answer might be “never.” I’ll never forget the story of a parent who came to one of my talks after their child shared that, for the first time, someone asked about their strengths, and it changed everything. When we recognize a child’s efforts and responsibilities, even the ones they find annoying or difficult, we help them see their hidden strengths. For example: Taking care of a sibling every morning develops patience and caregiving skills. Facing challenges at home or school can shape resilience and problem-solving abilities. These small moments of acknowledgment can transform how kids see themselves, helping them feel valued, capable, and confident. Let’s make it a point to ask our kids, “What’s important to you? What are your strengths?” #EmpoweringKids #PositiveParenting #RaisingConfidentKids #HowToTalkToKids #DrRobynSilverman #ParentingTips #MindfulParenting #ParentingPodcast
from Dr. Robyn Silverman
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pG8Zoby9W5Y
from Dr. Robyn Silverman
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pG8Zoby9W5Y
Wednesday, 7 May 2025
How to Talk to Kids About Imposter Syndrome with Dr. Richard Orbe-Austin #shorts
“I’ve heard kids say, ‘I just got lucky,’ after working so hard—and that’s a red flag. That’s impostor syndrome talking.” In this episode, I sat down with Dr. Richard OrbΓ©-Austin to talk about why so many kids (and adults!) feel like frauds, even when they’re clearly succeeding. We talk about parenting patterns, perfectionism, and what we can do to raise confident kids who own their worth. π§ Take a listen—and share this with someone who needs to hear that they are not an impostor. Check this link for the show notes: https://drrobynsilverman.com/how-to-talk-to-kids-about-impostor-syndrome-with-dr-richard-orbe-austin/ #HowToTalkToKids #DrRobynSilverman #ParentingWithPurpose #ImpostorSyndrome #ConfidenceInKids #OwnYourGreatness
from Dr. Robyn Silverman
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QAmG4QMC-MY
from Dr. Robyn Silverman
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QAmG4QMC-MY
Monday, 5 May 2025
What to Do When Your Child Speaks Meanly to You #shorts
"What to Do When Your Child Speaks Meanly to You π¬" It’s tough when your child says hurtful things—it can feel personal. But remember, their behavior is part of their development, not a reflection of your parenting. ❤ Here are some ways to respond with calm, kindness, and guidance: ✅ Teach them to express frustration respectfully. ✅ Offer a do-over moment to reset the tone. ✅ Listen between the lines—they might need your understanding. ✅ Stay calm, even if they’re not. Above all, remind yourself: Nobody is perfect. You’re a great parent, and they’re a great kid. Together, you’re growing stronger. π How do you handle moments like these with your child? Share below—I’d love to hear! π¬ #ParentingTips #HowToTalkToKids #PositiveParenting #MindfulParenting #ParentingHelp #RaisingKindKids #GentleParenting #ParentingJourney #KidsEmotions #ParentChildConnection
from Dr. Robyn Silverman
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HPsA4g5WlJM
from Dr. Robyn Silverman
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HPsA4g5WlJM
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