Think you’re not leadership material because you freeze under pressure, yet everyone comes to you when they need to feel seen and safe? You may be misreading your strengths. Here are three things to reconsider: 1️⃣ You might be an interpersonal connector. If you’re strong in rapport building, listening, and perspective taking, that is not “just being nice.” That is people-powered leadership. You create safety. You build trust. You make others feel understood. That is a leadership superpower. 2️⃣ Not every leader is a goal crusher. Maybe self-discipline or bouncing back quickly from failure doesn’t come naturally to you yet. That doesn’t make you weak. It simply highlights your growth edge. Strong leaders know both their strengths and their stretch zones. 3️⃣ The best leaders are not clones. You don’t have to lead like the loudest person in the room. Leadership can look like connection, kindness, curiosity, and trust. And that kind of leadership changes culture in powerful ways. Own your strengths. Grow your edges. You’re not behind. You’re becoming. Want to find out what kind of leader you are? Comment LEADER below and I’ll send you my Leadership Strength Profile from Unit Two of the Empower Launch Leadership Academy curriculum. Follow for more real-world skills to empower you and the next generation of leaders. #LeadershipStrengths #EmpowerLaunchLeadership #DrRobynSilverman #PeoplePoweredLeadership #LeadershipGrowth
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Wednesday, 25 February 2026
Friday, 20 February 2026
Screens arent ruining your Kids (But this might be!) #shorts
Screens are part of modern childhood. Panic doesn’t help. Shame doesn’t help. Extreme bans usually don’t last. What helps? Asking: “What is this replacing in my child’s life?” If screens crowd out connection, sleep, and responsibility — we adjust. If screens are part of a balanced life — we breathe. Parenting in 2026 isn’t about elimination. It’s about intention. #ScreenTime #ModernParenting #DrRobyn
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from Dr. Robyn Silverman
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Thursday, 19 February 2026
How to Help Child Develop Confidence #shorts
Confidence isn’t built by telling kids they’re amazing. It’s built by teaching them how to talk to themselves when they don’t feel amazing. If your child has an inner critic (and most do), help them: - Name the “gremlin” voice - Challenge what it says - Replace it with their “best friend” voice When kids learn that negative self-talk isn’t the truth, it’s just a voice, they gain power over it. And that’s where real confidence grows. We’re not trying to eliminate hard thoughts. We’re teaching kids how to respond to them. That’s how you build identity, resilience, and lasting self-worth. Follow for more tools on raising confident, capable kids. #DrRobynSilverman #BuildingConfidence #RaisingResilientKids #PositiveSelfTalk #GrowthMindsetForKids #CharacterDevelopment #ConfidentKids
from Dr. Robyn Silverman
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from Dr. Robyn Silverman
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/TXXZoCjcb-M
Wednesday, 18 February 2026
How to Use Play to Calm Big Emotions and Build Resilience with Georgie Wisen-Vincent #shorts
Is play the "missing piece" in your parenting toolkit? When our kids have big meltdowns or struggle with anxiety, our first instinct is often to correct the behavior. But what if the fastest path to calm was actually through play? I sat down with Georgie Wisen-Vincent @georgiewisenvincent , co-author of The Way of Play with Tina Payne Bryson @tinapaynebryson , to explore how simple, everyday moments of play act as a "reset button" for a child’s nervous system. In this episode, we explore: Presence over Performance: Why 5 minutes of focused connection beats an hour of distracted play. Curiosity over Correction: How shifting our language can stop a spiral before it starts. Rehearsing Bravery: How children use toys to process scary experiences and build emotional strength. The Power of Relationship: Why regulation happens in relationship, not in isolation. Whether you have a toddler or a teenager, playful connection is the foundation of a secure attachment. π§ Catch the full conversation with Georgie Wisen-Vincent at the link in my bio! #howtotalktokids #parentingpodcast #mindfulparenting #thewayofplay #rΓ©silience
from Dr. Robyn Silverman
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from Dr. Robyn Silverman
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Friday, 13 February 2026
What NOT to Say and What to Say when your Child is Frustrated #shorts
When kids say, “This is stupid!” They’re not asking for a lecture. They’re asking for support. π It’s easy to jump to: “Just focus.” “It’s not that hard.” “You need to try harder.” But frustration isn’t fixed with pressure. It’s softened with connection. Try this instead: ✔️ Validate the feeling ✔️ Offer a reset ✔️ Break it down step-by-step ✔️ Praise effort over perfection When kids feel understood, their brains calm down — and that’s when learning can actually happen. We’re not lowering expectations. We’re raising resilience. Want more scripts and real-life examples? Grab your copy of How to Talk to Kids About Anything and start turning tough moments into growth moments. ✨ #DrRobynSilverman #ParentingScripts #GrowthMindset #parentingtips #HowToTalkToKids #RaisingResilientKids
from Dr. Robyn Silverman
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/16vG40mgUbA
from Dr. Robyn Silverman
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/16vG40mgUbA
Wednesday, 11 February 2026
How to Talk to kids about Hate, Bias, and Belonging #shorts
If you’re wondering how to talk to kids about hate, bias, and belonging, this moment matters. This clip features 12-year-old Max, whose mom, @MteeTet on Facebook, bravely shared his experience after he was targeted with hate while playing soccer. She wrote: “All I’m asking is that we be nice to one another and treat each other with kindness. I am angry, hurt, and honestly speechless.” Max’s story isn’t just about one moment on a field — it’s a window into what many children are experiencing and carrying with them every day. Kids are hearing messages about race, difference, and power, whether we talk about them or not. Here’s how parents and caregivers can start the conversation: ✔️ Watch the clip together ✔️ Ask what your child thinks Max is feeling ✔️ Explain that hate is taught — and so is kindness ✔️ Talk about being an upstander, not a bystander ✔️ Connect it to your family’s values around inclusion, empathy, and respect Talking to kids about racism and bias doesn’t create fear. It builds emotional intelligence, compassion, and courage. Hate is learned. But so is empathy. So is standing up for others. Thank you to Max and his mom for sharing their story and reminding us why these conversations matter. π€ Screenshot the tips, share this post, and follow for more guidance on how to talk to kids about tough topics, race, and belonging. #DrRobynSilverman #LeadToLaunch #HowToTalkToKids #TalkingToKidsAboutRacism #AntiBiasParenting #RaisingEmpatheticKids #TeachingKindness #DiversityAndInclusion #ParentingIn2026
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from Dr. Robyn Silverman
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Friday, 6 February 2026
How to Talk to Kids about the Violence in Minesota #shorts
When violence makes the news, our first instinct is often to protect kids by staying silent. But our kids are already hearing about what’s happening, from social media, classmates, and whispers at school. If you’re wondering how to talk to kids about violence in Minnesota (or anywhere), the goal isn’t to have all the answers. It’s to create space for conversation, feelings, and clarity. Start by asking: * What have you heard? * How do you feel about it? * What are your friends saying? * Can I share with you my perspective? These simple questions help you understand what your child knows, correct misinformation, and support emotions like fear, anger, sadness, or confusion. From there, you can share your perspective using age-appropriate, honest, and reliable information. Tough topics don’t require perfect words, they require presence, listening, and connection. Our kids don’t need us to shield them from reality. They need us to help them make sense of it. π For more guidance on how to talk to kids about violence, tragedy, and hard news, follow along and explore How to Talk to Kids About Anything. #minesota #HowToTalkToKids #TalkingToKidsAboutViolence #Parenting #HelpingKids #newsupdates #ParentingSupport
from Dr. Robyn Silverman
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/u7mNXxWNLnc
from Dr. Robyn Silverman
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/u7mNXxWNLnc
Thursday, 5 February 2026
How to talk to kids about friendship drama #shorts
Friendship struggles can feel like the end of the world to a child or teen. Being left out, misunderstood, or replaced hits right at the heart of belonging. Our job is not to rush in and solve it right away. It is to listen, name feelings, and guide them toward healthy ways of handling conflict and change. When kids feel safe talking about friendship pain at home, they build the emotional and social skills they will use for life. The goal is not to manage every friendship for them. The goal is to help them grow through it. What is something your child has shared with you about friendships lately? #ParentingTips #FriendshipSkills #RaisingResilientKids #TalkingToKids #EmotionalIntelligence #ParentChildConnection #HowToTalkToKids
from Dr. Robyn Silverman
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/fqqsk2sVov4
from Dr. Robyn Silverman
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/fqqsk2sVov4
Wednesday, 4 February 2026
How to Talk about Parenting a Neurodivergent Child with Nefertiti Austin #shorts
ADHD isn’t a one-size-fits-all label. So often, when we think of ADHD symptoms in children, we picture the "bouncing off the walls" stereotype. But as memoirist and advocate Nefertiti Austin (@nefertitiaustin) explains in our latest clip, neurodiversity is much more nuanced than that. To support our children effectively, we have to understand the three distinct types of ADHD: - Inattentive Type: The quiet, calm child who may be struggling in silence. - Hyperactive Type: The high-energy child who fits the traditional stereotype. Combined Type: A mix of both—which can be especially confusing for parents and educators to navigate. Understanding these ADHD types is the first step in better school advocacy and creating parenting strategies that actually work for your child's unique brain. When we move past the labels and look at the child, we move from frustration to connection. π§ Listen to the full episode with Nefertiti Austin, "Parenting a Neurodivergent Child," at the link in my bio! #ADHD #Neurodivergent #Parenting #Parenting Podcast
from Dr. Robyn Silverman
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/QRpMgOEselo
from Dr. Robyn Silverman
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/QRpMgOEselo
Tuesday, 3 February 2026
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Teens are exposed to conversations about vaping, drinking, drugs, and other risky behaviors whether we bring it up or not. Friends, social media, and pop culture are already shaping what they think is normal. The question is not if they will hear about these things. The question is whether you will be part of the conversation. When parents react with shock, lectures, or instant punishment, teens often shut down or hide. But when we stay calm, curious, and open, we become a safe place to process pressure, curiosity, and mistakes. Talking about vices does not plant the idea. It plants protection. It gives them language, confidence, and a plan for when they are put on the spot. Connection is the best prevention. What is one topic you have been nervous to bring up, but know you should? #ParentingTeens #TalkingToTeens #TeenSafety #OpenCommunication #ParentingSupport #RaisingTeens
from Dr. Robyn Silverman
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/oYEoHSzXd2Y
from Dr. Robyn Silverman
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/oYEoHSzXd2Y
The 1 Rule How to Raise Kinder, More Thoughtful Kids #shorts
Kindness doesn’t require big gestures. It starts with small moments done on purpose. π The 1% Rule teaches kids that tiny actions — a greeting, remembering a detail, noticing something good — can make people feel seen, valued, and connected. These moments may seem small, but they shape how children show up in the world. When kids learn that just a little extra thought can make a big difference, they begin to lead with empathy, awareness, and care — skills that last far beyond childhood. Because people may forget what you said or did… but they’ll always remember how you made them feel. ✨ #DrRobynSilverman #The1PercentRule #RaisingKindKids #CharacterDevelopment #PowerfulWords
from Dr. Robyn Silverman
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/nkZk_nzRBXI
from Dr. Robyn Silverman
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/nkZk_nzRBXI
Sunday, 1 February 2026
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