When Your Child Says Nobody Likes Me #shorts

When your child says things like “I can’t do anything right” or “Nobody likes me,” it’s so natural to want to jump in and fix it right away. But what they really need in that moment is you, your calm presence, your curiosity, and your empathy. Instead of rushing to reassure or solve, pause and: 1️⃣ Clarify: “What makes you say that?” or “Did something happen today that made you feel like that?” Their words are clues. Let them lead you deeper. 2️⃣ Empathize: “That sounds really hard.” Or, “I’ve felt that way too.” You don’t have to agree with the belief, just sit with the feeling. 3️⃣ Listen: Hold the space without explaining it away or fixing it immediately. When we listen well, kids often find their own strength and perspective again. You don’t have to panic, fix, or have all the answers, you just have to make way for the story behind the sentence. That’s where trust and connection grow. 💛 #ParentingTips #EmpathyInParenting #ParentChildConnection #HowToTalkToKids #DrRobynSilverman #ActiveListening #RaisingResilientKids

from Dr. Robyn Silverman
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When Your Child Says Nobody Likes Me #shorts

When your child says things like “I can’t do anything right” or “Nobody likes me,” it’s so natural to want to jump in and fix it right away. But what they really need in that moment is you, your calm presence, your curiosity, and your empathy. Instead of rushing to reassure or solve, pause and: 1️⃣ Clarify: “What makes you say that?” or “Did something happen today that made you feel like that?” Their words are clues. Let them lead you deeper. 2️⃣ Empathize: “That sounds really hard.” Or, “I’ve felt that way too.” You don’t have to agree with the belief, just sit with the feeling. 3️⃣ Listen: Hold the space without explaining it away or fixing it immediately. When we listen well, kids often find their own strength and perspective again. You don’t have to panic, fix, or have all the answers, you just have to make way for the story behind the sentence. That’s where trust and connection grow. 💛 #ParentingTips #EmpathyInParenting #ParentChildConnection #HowToTalkToKids #DrRobynSilverman #ActiveListening #RaisingResilientKids

from Dr. Robyn Silverman
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/TbycdGZHmYo

Teaching Kids Empathy

One of the greatest gifts we can nurture in our children is empathy. Yes, research shows empathy is inborn, but it also needs to be modeled, taught, and practiced again and again. When kids learn to read emotions and take the perspective of others, they understand that their actions impact someone else’s feelings. They see that despite our differences, every person deserves to be treated with dignity and humanity. Want to help your child grow this skill? Try this: - Talk about emotions openly, yours and theirs. - Practice using I feel statements. - Notice how actions affect feelings, in real life, in books, or shows. - Encourage listening and showing concern when someone is upset or struggling. Empathy connects us, strengthens our relationships, and makes our world better. Let’s raise kids who see beyond themselves and choose kindness, even when it’s hard. #EmpathyMatters #RaisingKindKids #ParentingWithPurpose #PerspectiveTaking #ParentingTips #HowToTalkToKids #DrRobynSilverman

from Dr. Robyn Silverman
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How to Talk to Kids about the Flood in Texas #shorts

When tragedy strikes, like the devastating floods in Texas, many parents ask me: Should I talk to my kids about this? The answer, for many families, is yes. When we don’t talk about hard things, kids fill in the blanks, often with fear that’s bigger than the truth. Here’s how to have these tough conversations: ✅ Start with: A terrible thing happened in Texas. What have you heard? ✅ Gently fill in the facts in an age-appropriate way. ✅ Show them where it happened on a map, and where you are, to answer the unspoken Am I safe? ✅ Name their feelings. It’s okay to feel scared, sad, or confused. I feel that way too. ✅ Talk about the helpers, the neighbors, camp staff, first responders who saved lives. ✅ Let kids help. Pick a vetted nonprofit together. ✅ And remember: If you or your child are struggling, don’t go it alone. Ask for support. To the families in Texas whose lives have been forever changed by this flood, my heart is with you. May you find help, hope, and moments of light in the days ahead. Let’s lead our children with empathy, truth, trust, and love, even in life’s hardest moments. 💛 Sending strength to everyone affected. #ParentingThroughHardTimes #HowToTalkToKids #EmpathyMatters #ParentingSupport #TexasFloods #WeStandWithTexas #DrRobynSilverman

from Dr. Robyn Silverman
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Is Your Childs Identity holding them back or pushing them forward? #shorts

When kids talk about themselves, they’re building their identity in real-time. Are the words they’re using holding them back, or pushing them forward? “I’m awful at math.” “I’m stupid.” “I’m not good like you.” These words become beliefs. And beliefs shape choices, effort, and confidence. We can teach our kids to shift those limiting labels into growth-focused truths: 🌟 “I’m someone who tries new things.” 🌟 “I’m brave when it counts.” 🌟 “I need some extra help in this class, and that’s okay.” One powerful conversation, one small reframe, can help a child see themselves in a whole new way. Let’s help our kids choose words that open doors, not close them. Save this as your reminder and share it with someone who’s raising resilient, confident kids. I talk more about how to help kids shape their inner voice in my book, How to Talk to Kids About Anything #DrRobynSilverman #HowToTalkToKids #ChildDevelopment #ParentingTips #GrowthMindset #PositiveParenting #RaisingResilientKids #KidsMentalHealth #IdentityBuilding #MindsetMatters #ParentingSupport

from Dr. Robyn Silverman
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How can we Help Children Gain Mental Strength #shorts

When our kids compare themselves to everyone else, they’re handing their power away, tying their confidence to what others do instead of what they can do. One of the best gifts we can give our children is the ability to stand strong in who they are, even when they notice what others have or how others perform. Real mental strength comes from within, and it’s something we can help our kids grow every single day. Instead of asking, “How do I measure up?” we want our kids to ask, “How am I growing? What do I need to feel proud of myself?” Try these ideas: • Teach your child to create a simple catchphrase that reminds them of their power, “I can do it” or “I am enough.” • Encourage them to write down their strengths and stick that note where they’ll see it every day, a mirror, their binder, or their desk. • Help them chart their own progress, not someone else’s. Our kids can’t always control what others do, but they can learn to see, appreciate, and strengthen what makes them shine. That’s true mental strength. Save this as your reminder, and follow me for more ways to help your kids build resilience and confidence, inside and out. #DrRobynSilverman #HowToTalkToKids #ParentingTips #ResilientKids #ChildConfidence #PositiveParenting #RaisingStrongKids #MindsetMatters #ParentingSupport #ConnectedParenting

from Dr. Robyn Silverman
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7 Conversation Starters to to Go Deeper with Your Kids (Even with Tough Stuff) #shorts

Why do they work? They create safety, show respect, and remind kids they can share without fear of judgment. Here they are again with a short insight into why each one works: 1. Start with an Invitation, Not an Interrogation “Hey, I’ve been wondering what’s been on your mind lately. Want to talk?” Why it works: An open invitation gives your child the choice to engage, without pressure or putting them on the spot. 2. Be Curious, Not Critical “Tell me more about that. What was the best part? What was the hardest?” Why it works: Open-ended questions help kids reflect and share details. It feels like an exploration, not an interrogation. 3. Use a Gentle Bridge “When I was your age, I remember feeling… Does any of that feel familiar to you?” Why it works: Sharing a piece of your own story reminds your child they are not alone and helps them feel understood. 4. Ask Permission “Would it be okay if I asked you something? You don’t have to answer right now.” Why it works: Asking permission shows respect for your child’s boundaries. It gives them a sense of control over what they share. 5. Offer an Out “If you ever don’t want to talk about it right now, that’s okay. I’m here when you’re ready.” Why it works: Letting your child know they can pause or come back to a topic later removes pressure and builds trust. 6. End with Reassurance “I hope you know you can tell me anything, even the hard stuff, and I’ll still love you just the same.” Why it works: Kids need to know your love isn’t conditional on what they share. This feeling of safety makes them more likely to open up. 7. A Gentle Prompt for Next Time “What’s something you wish grown-ups asked about, but they don’t?” Why it works: This flips the script and invites your child to lead with what matters most to them. Conversations like these plant seeds. Even if they don’t open up right away, you are showing them you are ready whenever they are. Save these ideas, share them with a friend who might need them, and tell me: Which one do you want to try this week? #HowToTalkToKids #ParentingScripts #ParentingConnection #DrRobynSilverman #ParentingTips #DeeperConversations #EmotionalSafety

from Dr. Robyn Silverman
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